As the warmer months roll in, many of us enter the wedding circuit — whether as guest, bridesmaid, or maid-of-honor. Choosing the right foundational pieces can make the difference between confidence and constant tugging. Here are modern tips — with product suggestions — to help you stay smooth, supported, and invisible.

1. Start with Fabric & Dress Construction

Go light & seamless

Because many modern gowns use breathable, flowy fabrics, heavy shapewear can hinder the natural drape. Instead:

  • Seek light to moderate control that still provides tummy control rather than rigid compression.

  • Prefer silicone-lined or bonded hems (versus thick elastic) to reduce show-through.

  • Test angles — front, side, and back — before committing.

If you prefer skipping shapewear altogether, use ultra-thin panties or briefs, a thong, boyshort, or hipster. Cupid Intimates women's underwear styles with silicone leg edges help avoid ride-up or visible lines.


2. Match to the Dress Silhouette

Here’s how to pair intimates with common bridesmaid and wedding guest dress styles:

Strapless

These dresses demand supportive, anchored foundations. A strapless bodysuit with underwire and light boning is ideal as it gives support and coverage, so you can worry less about how you look and more about dancing the night away! Here are some of our favorite options: 

One-Shoulder

One-shoulder dresses create asymmetry. A strapless base is still your go-to, but you may optionally use a detachable strap on one side. Try choosing a style that has convertible straps for endless placement options! 

Halter 

Halter styles often provide natural lift, but you still benefit from structured support underneath.

Low-Back / Plunging / Cut-Out

Modern dresses increasingly feature daring backs or side cut-outs. For those, you’ll need special solutions:


3. Smart Tips for Longevity & Comfort

  • Test in motion. Wear the full outfit (dress + heels + intimates) for an hour. Sit, dance, walk — check for shifts.

  • Carry a backup. A spare thong, disposable slip, or panty-liner can bail you out in a pinch.

  • Opt for breathable fabrics. Especially in warm months — cotton gussets or moisture-wicking panels are lifesavers.

  • Choose adjustable or convertible pieces. Pieces with detachable straps or strap-reconfiguration let you adapt on the fly.

  • Look for gusset options for easy access for the restroom. Opt for a hook-and-eye or convertible gusset